Inviting Families into Observation & Assessment

Families are the first and most important influence on a child's learning, development, health, and well-being. As early childhood educators (ECEs), our role is to honour that influence by partnering with families to observe and assess their child's play and learning in ways that are meaningful, respectful, and inclusive.

When educators and families collaborate, children benefit from a stronger support system. They see the trusted adults in their lives working together, which reinforces their own sense of security and belonging. But how can educators actively invite families into the observation and assessment process? Here are some practical strategies for building strong partnerships and fostering meaningful engagement.

Building Meaningful Partnerships with Families to Support Children's Play and Learning

1. Create Open Lines of Communication

Communication is the cornerstone of family partnerships. Families need to feel informed and valued, and educators can use a variety of methods to share information and invite feedback:

  • In-person Updates: Share brief observations or highlights at drop-off or pick-up times. For example, "Your child spent a lot of time exploring the sensory table today and seemed especially curious about water flow!"
  • Parent Communication App: Use a parent communication app to provide real-time updates, ensuring families feel connected throughout the day even when they're at work. These apps enable seamless communication by offering instant messaging, daily activity updates, development milestones and photos, fostering a sense of involvement. Families also gain the flexibility to review messages and updates on their schedule, promoting productive two-way dialogues with educators and enhancing the overall partnership.
  • Written Notes: If your center does not have a parent communication app, try sending home written notes or emails with specific insights about the day's activities. You can also keep a physical journal or daily log in the classroom for parents to review at drop-off and pick-up if time permits.
  • Parent Boards or Newsletters: Use visual displays or newsletters to share classroom updates, goals, children's current interests and examples of how families can support learning at home.

2. Invite Families to Share Their Perspectives

Families hold a wealth of knowledge about their child's interests, routines, and cultural or linguistic background. This knowledge provides context that educators might not otherwise see in the classroom, allowing for a more holistic understanding of each child. When educators invite families to share their perspectives, it fosters collaboration, builds trust, and ensures that the child's learning experience reflects their unique identity and needs.

  • New Family Meetings or Questionnaires: Gather information about a child's favourite activities, challenges they face, and developmental goals they may be working towards when they join your classroom. This information can help uncover important aspects of a child's life and inform classroom strategies.
  • Storytelling Opportunities: Invite families to share stories, traditions, or cultural practices that are meaningful to them. These contributions can enrich classroom discussions, foster inclusivity and belonging, and help all children develop an appreciation for diversity.
  • Parent-Teacher Meetings: Regularly scheduled check-ins provide a dedicated space for two-way communication. Actively listening to families and reflecting their input in your planning demonstrates respect for their role and reinforces the partnership you are building with them. 


3. Foster Co-Creation of Learning Experiences

Engaging families in the observation and assessment process doesn't just mean sharing what you see in the classroom—it also means collaborating with them to shape learning experiences.

  • Documentation Review: Encourage families to review the daily documentation and developmental milestones you share with them and offer their input. This can be done through a parent communication app, sending home written files or through parent-teacher meetings. Also encourage them to review the classroom curriculum so they have an understanding of what is coming up and feel welcome to share their input.  
  • Classroom Participation: Invite families to join a class activity, such as reading a story or helping with an art project. Seeing their child in action can deepen their understanding of how play-based learning works.
  • Collaborative Goal-Setting: Involve families in setting developmental or social goals for their child, creating a shared sense of purpose and direction.


4. Celebrate and Explain the Learning Behind Play

Many families may not immediately see the connection between play and learning. By explaining your pedagogy and the significance behind everyday activities, you can help families understand their child's growth.

  • Classroom Learning Boards: Use visuals in the classroom to showcase how play activities align with developmental milestones. For instance, sharing photos of a recent activity with developmental milestones attached, such as "building with blocks supports early math skills like spatial awareness and problem-solving."
  • Highlighting Achievements: Celebrate both small and big milestones with families by sharing specific examples of their child's learning journey and developmental growth.
  • Clarifying Materials: Families may not understand the educational purpose of certain materials. For example, a leaf brought home might be seen as a toy, but you can explain how it was part of an exploration of texture, weight, and the outdoor world.
  • Share Developmental Milestones with Lillio: In Lillio, when teachers upload an activity, they can automatically tag the developmental milestones the children are working towards. These are then added to the child's developmental portfolio, providing families with ongoing insight into their child's progress.


5. Respect and Reflect Family Diversity

Families come from diverse cultural, linguistic, and social backgrounds. Recognizing and respecting these differences is essential to building equitable partnerships.

  • Be Culturally Responsive: Learn about each family's cultural practices and values. Use this knowledge to create inclusive learning experiences that reflect their child's identity.
  • Address Biases: Reflect on your own beliefs and assumptions to ensure that your communication and engagement strategies are free from bias.


6. Promote Family Confidence and Belonging

When families feel their voices are valued and their contributions matter, they develop a sense of ownership and connection to their child's learning journey. Cultivating this confidence and sense of belonging not only strengthens family engagement but also enhances the overall learning environment for children.

  • Ask for Feedback: Regularly seek families' input on your program, their child's progress, or areas for improvement. Actively listening and acting on feedback shows that their perspective is integral to shaping a supportive environment.
  • Involve Them in Decision-Making: Engage families in meaningful ways by inviting them to participate in decisions, whether it's reviewing policies, planning classroom activities or events, or advocating for early learning initiatives. Giving families a say fosters shared responsibility and collaboration.
  • Celebrate Family Contributions: Recognize and honour the unique knowledge, skills, and cultural traditions each family brings. Whether it's sharing expertise, cultural practices, or simply dedicating time to the program, acknowledging their efforts strengthens their connection to the learning community.
  • Provide Opportunities to Build Confidence: Offer workshops, resources, or hands-on sessions to help families better understand their role in supporting their child's development. When families feel informed and empowered, they are more likely to engage fully and confidently.


How Lillio Enhances Communication and Strengthens Family Relationships

Building strong relationships with families is key to creating a positive and supportive learning environment. With Lillio's child care software, daycare centers can easily stay connected with families, share updates, and engage in meaningful conversations about their child's development. The app not only simplifies communication for educators but also ensures parents feel informed and valued.

Want to learn more? Request a demo today and discover how Lillio can help you foster stronger connections with the families in your care! Click here for more information!

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